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		<title>By: Elias McClellan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elias McClellan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 22:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ms. Reeve, 

Thanks for passing on Donald Maass&#039;s book.  

E.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ms. Reeve, </p>
<p>Thanks for passing on Donald Maass&#8217;s book.  </p>
<p>E.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie Burgis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie Burgis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Randy, I totally feel your pain! The dream is definitely worth it...but the promo-fatigue is very real.

Laura, that advice is so helpful. Thank you!!!

And Adele, thanks so much for the kind words about the website and the good luck wishes. I really appreciate them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Randy, I totally feel your pain! The dream is definitely worth it&#8230;but the promo-fatigue is very real.</p>
<p>Laura, that advice is so helpful. Thank you!!!</p>
<p>And Adele, thanks so much for the kind words about the website and the good luck wishes. I really appreciate them!</p>
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		<title>By: Adele</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adele</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 15:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The website is gorgeous and lovely and friendly. Best of luck.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The website is gorgeous and lovely and friendly. Best of luck.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Reeve</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Reeve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephanie, I&#039;m a pathologically shy person who is going through the release of her second book.  When people tell me to relax and enjoy it (are they kidding?), I know they&#039;re from planet Gregarious.  And I&#039;m not.

What has helped me, however, is to stop beating myself up about my level of self-promotion.  Getting the signings for my first book was agony, and enduring them was stressful.  Were there enough signings?  Were they effective?  I suspected not, because in two hours, there might not even be a fiction reader (let alone a military SF reader) coming through the doors of a strange bookstore (even with announcements/promotion).  For my second book, I vowed to not push myself into a nervous breakdown.  Several signings fell into my lap anyway, without me having to cold-call on Booksellers.  I also re-read Donald Maass&#039; The Career Novelist, where he has a chapter titled &quot;Self-Promotion or Self-Delusion&quot; that puts it into perspective.  Basically, new fiction authors with large print runs just can&#039;t reach out to enough readers, even with the Web, so the book _always_ has to generate its own recommendations.

So... try to stay close to your comfort zone.  Try to do things you _might_ enjoy anyway, or learn from, even if you didn&#039;t have a book to plug.  Put the numbers into perspective.  Finally, try not to believe all the self-promotion hype that tells you its soooooo crucial to self-promote.  The crucial work occurred during the writing/editing of the book.  (If this sounds like heresy, go read Donald Maass).  And I wish you the best of luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephanie, I&#8217;m a pathologically shy person who is going through the release of her second book.  When people tell me to relax and enjoy it (are they kidding?), I know they&#8217;re from planet Gregarious.  And I&#8217;m not.</p>
<p>What has helped me, however, is to stop beating myself up about my level of self-promotion.  Getting the signings for my first book was agony, and enduring them was stressful.  Were there enough signings?  Were they effective?  I suspected not, because in two hours, there might not even be a fiction reader (let alone a military SF reader) coming through the doors of a strange bookstore (even with announcements/promotion).  For my second book, I vowed to not push myself into a nervous breakdown.  Several signings fell into my lap anyway, without me having to cold-call on Booksellers.  I also re-read Donald Maass&#8217; The Career Novelist, where he has a chapter titled &#8220;Self-Promotion or Self-Delusion&#8221; that puts it into perspective.  Basically, new fiction authors with large print runs just can&#8217;t reach out to enough readers, even with the Web, so the book _always_ has to generate its own recommendations.</p>
<p>So&#8230; try to stay close to your comfort zone.  Try to do things you _might_ enjoy anyway, or learn from, even if you didn&#8217;t have a book to plug.  Put the numbers into perspective.  Finally, try not to believe all the self-promotion hype that tells you its soooooo crucial to self-promote.  The crucial work occurred during the writing/editing of the book.  (If this sounds like heresy, go read Donald Maass).  And I wish you the best of luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Randy Susan Meyers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Randy Susan Meyers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 21:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your wonderful warm post. It came just at the right moment of promo-fatigue, reminding me how lucky I am to be feeling promo-anything with a dream come true.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your wonderful warm post. It came just at the right moment of promo-fatigue, reminding me how lucky I am to be feeling promo-anything with a dream come true.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie Burgis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie Burgis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 21:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Elias and Kathleen, thank you so much. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Elias and Kathleen, thank you so much. <img src='http://www.sfnovelists.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen Foucart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen Foucart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s great how you can take those scary/stressful things and make them fun. I understand that inside-shrivel (for me it was college), so it&#039;s nice to see how others turn it around.

Every time I see something related to Kat it makes me smile. I can&#039;t wait for your book &amp; to see all the fun things you have lined up to help introduce her to the world. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s great how you can take those scary/stressful things and make them fun. I understand that inside-shrivel (for me it was college), so it&#8217;s nice to see how others turn it around.</p>
<p>Every time I see something related to Kat it makes me smile. I can&#8217;t wait for your book &amp; to see all the fun things you have lined up to help introduce her to the world. <img src='http://www.sfnovelists.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Elias McClellan</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2009/10/26/the-scary-bits/#comment-7381</link>
		<dc:creator>Elias McClellan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ms Burgis, first, thank you for your inspiring words from those of us in mid-book, mid-workshop, or mid-waiting a workshop to open.  

Secondly, please, please, please, pretty please, with sugar on top, follow up on this thread/theme as you can with points that worked or didn&#039;t, dead-end paths, or paths you wish you&#039;d took...

You know what?  Scrap all that.  ENJOY THIS.  For youself.  The rest of us will find our way.  Everybody ever once met is gonna come out of the wood-work, looking for a touch/hookup/inside track.  This is your moment, your work, and you deserve to savor it.  Best wishes on your continued success.     

E.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ms Burgis, first, thank you for your inspiring words from those of us in mid-book, mid-workshop, or mid-waiting a workshop to open.  </p>
<p>Secondly, please, please, please, pretty please, with sugar on top, follow up on this thread/theme as you can with points that worked or didn&#8217;t, dead-end paths, or paths you wish you&#8217;d took&#8230;</p>
<p>You know what?  Scrap all that.  ENJOY THIS.  For youself.  The rest of us will find our way.  Everybody ever once met is gonna come out of the wood-work, looking for a touch/hookup/inside track.  This is your moment, your work, and you deserve to savor it.  Best wishes on your continued success.     </p>
<p>E.</p>
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