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		<title>By: Mike Brotherton</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2008/07/11/on-the-importance-of-having-a-life/#comment-3168</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Brotherton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get offended like everyone else when accused of something nasty they didn&#039;t do, or didn&#039;t mean.  Like others I don&#039;t always respond in the wisest manner.   Even the most carefully chosen words get tripped over by some people some of the time, especially on the internet where few words are the most carefully chosen, and thus the flamewar was created.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get offended like everyone else when accused of something nasty they didn&#8217;t do, or didn&#8217;t mean.  Like others I don&#8217;t always respond in the wisest manner.   Even the most carefully chosen words get tripped over by some people some of the time, especially on the internet where few words are the most carefully chosen, and thus the flamewar was created.</p>
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		<title>By: Leah Bobet</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2008/07/11/on-the-importance-of-having-a-life/#comment-3165</link>
		<dc:creator>Leah Bobet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 17:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Mike--

Thanks for the reply.  I have to beg to differ about being &quot;silly people&quot;, &quot;overly sensitive&quot;, or a &quot;zealot&quot;, though.  I&#039;m not sure calling me or Jaime names really disproves the point.  If you know that this was sloppily worded--

&quot;Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully, but please.&quot;

--maybe you should consider that a more helpful or productive response would have gone like &quot;Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully.  Sorry, dudes.  I&#039;ll check for that next time.&quot;  Because, like Jaime, I&#039;m afraid what I read still looks to be what you wrote, and as was once said to Greg Feeley, if you&#039;re a professional writer and people are consistently (apparently) misreading you in the same directions, you may have a problem on your hands.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Mike&#8211;</p>
<p>Thanks for the reply.  I have to beg to differ about being &#8220;silly people&#8221;, &#8220;overly sensitive&#8221;, or a &#8220;zealot&#8221;, though.  I&#8217;m not sure calling me or Jaime names really disproves the point.  If you know that this was sloppily worded&#8211;</p>
<p>&#8220;Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully, but please.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8211;maybe you should consider that a more helpful or productive response would have gone like &#8220;Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully.  Sorry, dudes.  I&#8217;ll check for that next time.&#8221;  Because, like Jaime, I&#8217;m afraid what I read still looks to be what you wrote, and as was once said to Greg Feeley, if you&#8217;re a professional writer and people are consistently (apparently) misreading you in the same directions, you may have a problem on your hands.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaime</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2008/07/11/on-the-importance-of-having-a-life/#comment-3164</link>
		<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 16:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike,

I will accept that what you wrote is not what you meant, but you still wrote it. I wasn&#039;t the one to equate real day jobs and professionalism with science and engineering. 

 And I&#039;m not going to debate with you about context and wording things carefully, because I&#039;ve learned the writer trying to break in never, ever wins against the established pro. The feeding chain doesn&#039;t work that way.

I will say this. Writers I respect a great deal have taught me two things. A writer lives and dies by their words and once it&#039;s out there, you can&#039;t take it back. 

The second is that you can&#039;t control the reader&#039;s fifty percent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike,</p>
<p>I will accept that what you wrote is not what you meant, but you still wrote it. I wasn&#8217;t the one to equate real day jobs and professionalism with science and engineering. </p>
<p> And I&#8217;m not going to debate with you about context and wording things carefully, because I&#8217;ve learned the writer trying to break in never, ever wins against the established pro. The feeding chain doesn&#8217;t work that way.</p>
<p>I will say this. Writers I respect a great deal have taught me two things. A writer lives and dies by their words and once it&#8217;s out there, you can&#8217;t take it back. </p>
<p>The second is that you can&#8217;t control the reader&#8217;s fifty percent.</p>
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		<title>By: Well-Meaning Anti-Whatever Zealotry and the Perils of Blogging &#124; Mike Brotherton: SF Writer</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2008/07/11/on-the-importance-of-having-a-life/#comment-3160</link>
		<dc:creator>Well-Meaning Anti-Whatever Zealotry and the Perils of Blogging &#124; Mike Brotherton: SF Writer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 09:58:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] me provide some examples.  A couple of days ago I blogged here and at sfnovelists about how it helps to have had some life experiences to be a writer, and used as a lead-in the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] me provide some examples.  A couple of days ago I blogged here and at sfnovelists about how it helps to have had some life experiences to be a writer, and used as a lead-in the [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Brotherton</title>
		<link>http://www.sfnovelists.com/2008/07/11/on-the-importance-of-having-a-life/#comment-3157</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Brotherton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 06:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, you silly people!  Leah, Jaime, what I&#039;m saying is that science and engineering are not the only kinds of careers that require &quot;professionalism and talent.&quot;  I&#039;m not saying anything more than that.  You have to be overly sensitive to misinterpret this, don&#039;t you?  And the potpourri sort of resume may or may not require &quot;professionalism and talent,&quot; but I&#039;m not saying anything about that one way or the other.

Really, my pet peeve on blog comments is people getting twisted up on their own issues when they&#039;re not intended, and assuming the worst of an author.  Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully, but please.  Why is everyone out to assume the worst and always assume that they&#039;ve got it right???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, you silly people!  Leah, Jaime, what I&#8217;m saying is that science and engineering are not the only kinds of careers that require &#8220;professionalism and talent.&#8221;  I&#8217;m not saying anything more than that.  You have to be overly sensitive to misinterpret this, don&#8217;t you?  And the potpourri sort of resume may or may not require &#8220;professionalism and talent,&#8221; but I&#8217;m not saying anything about that one way or the other.</p>
<p>Really, my pet peeve on blog comments is people getting twisted up on their own issues when they&#8217;re not intended, and assuming the worst of an author.  Apparently I could have worded this part more carefully, but please.  Why is everyone out to assume the worst and always assume that they&#8217;ve got it right???</p>
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		<title>By: Jaime</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 16:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The other type is someone who has had a steady career in some field.  For sf writers, that’s often a science or engineering career, or some other real day job requiring some professionalism and talent.&quot;

You know, I actually linked to this post on LJ until someone pointed this out to me. I took the link down once I realized what you were really saying--only those lucky enough to have the advantage of education and money can be truly professional. While I was agreeing with the life experience section of the essay you slipped the knife in.

The sad thing is that I&#039;ve heard this kind of thing from so called &#039;professionals&#039; so often during my working life my eyes slid right by it. As one of the first kind of writers you reference, the ones who do jobs to pay the bills and survive while writing, I&#039;ve grown used to being told a trained monkey could do my job and no one would ever know the difference. And I don&#039;t even blink anymore at being told none of the jobs I&#039;ve held are &quot;real jobs&quot;.

Desensitized much? Maybe just a little.

I do wonder how many of the highly educated, well paid scientists and engineers, the ones with the real professionalism and talent,  could do nine,  ten hour shifts standing on their feet and still come home and write every night. Just how long would their commitment to writing last?

I&#039;d place a wager on which type of writer gains more life experience in the bargain, but that would be a sucker bet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The other type is someone who has had a steady career in some field.  For sf writers, that’s often a science or engineering career, or some other real day job requiring some professionalism and talent.&#8221;</p>
<p>You know, I actually linked to this post on LJ until someone pointed this out to me. I took the link down once I realized what you were really saying&#8211;only those lucky enough to have the advantage of education and money can be truly professional. While I was agreeing with the life experience section of the essay you slipped the knife in.</p>
<p>The sad thing is that I&#8217;ve heard this kind of thing from so called &#8216;professionals&#8217; so often during my working life my eyes slid right by it. As one of the first kind of writers you reference, the ones who do jobs to pay the bills and survive while writing, I&#8217;ve grown used to being told a trained monkey could do my job and no one would ever know the difference. And I don&#8217;t even blink anymore at being told none of the jobs I&#8217;ve held are &#8220;real jobs&#8221;.</p>
<p>Desensitized much? Maybe just a little.</p>
<p>I do wonder how many of the highly educated, well paid scientists and engineers, the ones with the real professionalism and talent,  could do nine,  ten hour shifts standing on their feet and still come home and write every night. Just how long would their commitment to writing last?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d place a wager on which type of writer gains more life experience in the bargain, but that would be a sucker bet.</p>
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		<title>By: Raethe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raethe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 23:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was in error in two things, it seems. First off, I didn&#039;t mean that experience -always- leads to good writing (but in my opinion, it certainly helps!). Secondly, I didn&#039;t mean to come off as offended or looking just to start an argument for argument&#039;s sake, so if I did, my apologies.

I definitely agree that for the most part one gets better as one gets older. Mostly I wanted to point out that while a lot of people don&#039;t make their way into a writing career while they&#039;re fresh out of college, there are a few notable exceptions to the rule.

And to my chagrin I must admit that I haven&#039;t actually read The Great Gatsby. Now I&#039;ll have to read This Side of Paradise first, I suppose.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in error in two things, it seems. First off, I didn&#8217;t mean that experience -always- leads to good writing (but in my opinion, it certainly helps!). Secondly, I didn&#8217;t mean to come off as offended or looking just to start an argument for argument&#8217;s sake, so if I did, my apologies.</p>
<p>I definitely agree that for the most part one gets better as one gets older. Mostly I wanted to point out that while a lot of people don&#8217;t make their way into a writing career while they&#8217;re fresh out of college, there are a few notable exceptions to the rule.</p>
<p>And to my chagrin I must admit that I haven&#8217;t actually read The Great Gatsby. Now I&#8217;ll have to read This Side of Paradise first, I suppose.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:26:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oops! Here&#039;s how the first sentences should read:

&quot;Experience leads to good writing, but age is no guarantor of experience.&quot;

Well, experience *can* lead to good writing; then again, maybe not. And while age does pretty much guarantee experience (on a quantitative, not necessarily qualitative, level), what it doesn&#039;t guarantee is wisdom or insight. I haven&#039;t read Zadie Smith, but here&#039;s my point: If she was really that insightful at 22, just wait until she&#039;s 32.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oops! Here&#8217;s how the first sentences should read:</p>
<p>&#8220;Experience leads to good writing, but age is no guarantor of experience.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well, experience *can* lead to good writing; then again, maybe not. And while age does pretty much guarantee experience (on a quantitative, not necessarily qualitative, level), what it doesn&#8217;t guarantee is wisdom or insight. I haven&#8217;t read Zadie Smith, but here&#8217;s my point: If she was really that insightful at 22, just wait until she&#8217;s 32.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Walker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Walker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;Experience leads to good writing, but age is no guarantor of experience.can lead to good writing; then again, maybe not. And while age does pretty much guarantee experience (on a quantitative, not necessarily qualitative, level), what it doesn&#039;t guarantee is wisdom or insight. I haven&#039;t read Zadie Smith, but here&#039;s my point: If she was really that insightful at 22, just wait until she&#039;s 32.

Case in point: F. Scott Fitzgerald, whom I think we all can agree was of a pretty high caliber at a relatively young age. Read &quot;This Side of Paradise,&quot; which he wrote at 24, and then read &quot;The Great Gatsby,&quot; written at age 29. That&#039;s what I&#039;m talking about.

I certainly meant no offense with my comments. As I said, there are many young people who write better than many best-selling &quot;authors.&quot; No argument there! But it is very rare for someone under, say 27?, to have gained any truly deep wisdom/insight. Again, I know you&#039;re going to jump all over that. But, let me just say that I have always been &quot;older than my age,&quot; so, trust me, I know what you&#039;re getting at.

I don&#039;t know. I hate blog arguments, and I&#039;m not looking to start one. Suffice it to say that there is a certain opportunity for wisdom that comes as one gets older, with a quality that is simply not available to us at a younger age. And here&#039;s the thing: there&#039;s nothing wrong with that!

Let me make one more point. Kant, one of the greatest western philosophers of all time, never left his tiny, little town in his entire life. A genius philosopher with &quot;no worldly experience.&quot; And yet, I guarantee that the ideas that make him a genius were not formed when he was 22. Seeds? Sure, why not. But, there&#039;s a reason why the phrase &quot;mature philosophy&quot; is used when speaking about such greats.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;Experience leads to good writing, but age is no guarantor of experience.can lead to good writing; then again, maybe not. And while age does pretty much guarantee experience (on a quantitative, not necessarily qualitative, level), what it doesn&#8217;t guarantee is wisdom or insight. I haven&#8217;t read Zadie Smith, but here&#8217;s my point: If she was really that insightful at 22, just wait until she&#8217;s 32.</p>
<p>Case in point: F. Scott Fitzgerald, whom I think we all can agree was of a pretty high caliber at a relatively young age. Read &#8220;This Side of Paradise,&#8221; which he wrote at 24, and then read &#8220;The Great Gatsby,&#8221; written at age 29. That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
<p>I certainly meant no offense with my comments. As I said, there are many young people who write better than many best-selling &#8220;authors.&#8221; No argument there! But it is very rare for someone under, say 27?, to have gained any truly deep wisdom/insight. Again, I know you&#8217;re going to jump all over that. But, let me just say that I have always been &#8220;older than my age,&#8221; so, trust me, I know what you&#8217;re getting at.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. I hate blog arguments, and I&#8217;m not looking to start one. Suffice it to say that there is a certain opportunity for wisdom that comes as one gets older, with a quality that is simply not available to us at a younger age. And here&#8217;s the thing: there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that!</p>
<p>Let me make one more point. Kant, one of the greatest western philosophers of all time, never left his tiny, little town in his entire life. A genius philosopher with &#8220;no worldly experience.&#8221; And yet, I guarantee that the ideas that make him a genius were not formed when he was 22. Seeds? Sure, why not. But, there&#8217;s a reason why the phrase &#8220;mature philosophy&#8221; is used when speaking about such greats.</p>
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		<title>By: Leah Bobet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leah Bobet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2008 22:15:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The other type is someone who has had a steady career in some field.  For sf writers, that’s often a science or engineering career, or some other real day job requiring some professionalism and talent.&quot;

Hi, Mike.  I&#039;m one of those first-type people.  I do not have a science or engineering career.  And for various reasons, one of which being my financial situation and one of which being a serious curiosity about how things work, I have one of those bounce-around resumes, one that&#039;s kept ends meeting.

I assure you my job(s) require professionalism and talent, and they are very real.

Please consider your assumptions; thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The other type is someone who has had a steady career in some field.  For sf writers, that’s often a science or engineering career, or some other real day job requiring some professionalism and talent.&#8221;</p>
<p>Hi, Mike.  I&#8217;m one of those first-type people.  I do not have a science or engineering career.  And for various reasons, one of which being my financial situation and one of which being a serious curiosity about how things work, I have one of those bounce-around resumes, one that&#8217;s kept ends meeting.</p>
<p>I assure you my job(s) require professionalism and talent, and they are very real.</p>
<p>Please consider your assumptions; thanks.</p>
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